- Every great religious tradition contains truth, but none of them contain only truth or all truth.
- Only ego, hubris, and fear would lead someone to claim their religion is completely true.
- Every religion was made by human beings.
- Looking into practices of other traditions does not constitute disloyalty to your own.
- Refusal to consider another point of view isn't loyalty, it's voluntary ignorance.
Thursday, September 14, 2017
Monday, September 4, 2017
In another direction is maintaining the status quo. While in other times that may have seemed a reasonable approach, the status quo is clearly decaying. In Christian circles, mainline religion has the equivalent of a sucking chest wound. While most official representatives occupy their time scurrying about criticizing new movements rather than looking to reform what isn't working in their own (the spiritual equivalent of rearranging deck chairs on the Titanic), their members are scurrying out the door in an effort to escape before the ship capsizes. At this point band-aid therapy is ineffective, and nobody seems willing to sign consent for the major surgery required to patch up the wound.
As you know, for some time now I have identified myself as Interspiritual. Our local community here in Milwaukee, the Compassionate Heart Interspiritual Community, celebrates the commonalities among the great religious traditions, what has been called perennial wisdom or the perennial tradition. Recently I came across another term to describe the journey of interspiritual people: Spiritual Independents. I like that quite a bit. Whatever you want to call it, it is my spiritual home. I no longer believe that any one tradition has a monopoly on Truth - nor do I believe any of the great traditions are bereft of Truth. That isn't to say they are all the same, but it is to say they all have value. I have learned that there are some things each tradition does very well, and others where they could use some improvement - and those things are different in each tradition. I have also learned that I no longer see any value in debating the relative merits of this or that path, or in the pissing contests that pass for theological debate in the west. The result is that, while I am happy to participate in an honest exchange of experiences and practices that respects the dignity of all participants, I am not interested in arguing (to paraphrase George Carlin) about whose version of god has a bigger penis.
Many of the groups within each tradition seem to see it as their primary duty to declare which other groups are not legitimate members of the tradition. What a waste of time! Our religion and spirituality exist to help us understand and live in our world. Getting caught up in all of these arguments is rather like going to a movie and leaving after the trailers. Don't forget to silence your cell phones, and the large popcorn has free refills!
To be sure, some people aren't ready for the kind of transition I am writing about, and others have moved beyond it to something else. As for me, this is where I am on my journey. Locally, Compassionate Heart Community will be hosting several opportunities over the coming months to learn more about being a spiritual independent. I will also be looking for ways you might join us virtually if you aren't in the local area. We will be working together to discover a path that allows us to grow with integrity. I hope you will join us!
Tuesday, August 15, 2017
Our love affair with blame is directly related to our love affair with shame. Shame is a toxic alternative to guilt, which is healthy. Guilt says, I did something wrong. Shame says, I am wrong, defective in my very being. Shame is used, to our detriment, every day by parents, managers, and
One of the best examples of the blame game in the aftermath of Charlottesville was the statement that "all white people are responsible for Charlottesville." This is what a liberal shame dump looks like. Unless you are willing to say that all people of color are responsible for the kid of color who robs a convenience store, you can't say that all white people are responsible for Charlottesville. This tactic is all about people trying to move past what has happened as quickly as they can rather than looking at the real causes of tragedy and working to change them.
The Buddha is said to have taught about a man shot with a poison arrow. He said that if you are shot with a poison arrow, it's not the time to ask who shot it, what kind of poison it is, or where the arrow was made. Instead, you pull it out. The blame game keeps us focused on the past and not looking to what comes next, what we should do now. I can guarantee that the solution to any problem lies in the present moment, not in the past. The blame game operates completely in the past and keeps us stuck there. It is important to know how a problem developed, but it is much more important to work to solve the problem. To be successful at problem solving, we need to move from shame to a healthier understanding of ourselves and our actions.
Wednesday, July 12, 2017
- Candidates must have freely and voluntarily offered their lives in the face of “a certain and soon-to-come death.”
- There must be a “close relation” between the candidate’s offering their life and his or her “premature death.”
- The person must have lived closely in alignment with “Christian virtues” before and up until their death.
- They must have a “reputation for holiness,” especially after their death.
- The candidate must have a miracle attributed to their intercession.
I don't want to rain on anybody's parade. We all need examples to emulate, whether we are religious people, amateur athletes, or research scientists. On the other hand, I don't believe that this news that the Church has, in layman's terms, opened the doors to its Hall of Fame a bit wider will matter much to the poor, the hungry, the destitute, or the victims of oppression and/or violence. Nor do I believe anybody is going to read this news and decide that they really should lead a virtuous life and sacrifice it for another because there's a better chance they will get into the Hall of Fame for doing so now. It's just that I would like to see institutional religion stop wasting time and resources on decisions that really aren't impactful and concentrate instead on this it claims it exists to serve.
Besides, everybody knows that the Hall of Fame is a political institution. If it wasn't, Pete Rose would be in there.
Saturday, July 8, 2017
Boycott Chinese businesses! Boycott countries with sweat shops! Don't eat at this restaurant because their political views aren't what I think they should be! Don't eat this or that because I don't!
The truth is that when a nation imposes economic sanctions on another nation, only the poor are hurt. Rulers continue their same opulent lifestyle despite sanctions. Remember the years of economic sanctions on Iraq? Saddam Hussein didn't sell his palace to cut corners, he just made sure even less flowed to the average citizen. Similarly, Fidel Castro didn't go without during all the years of the U.S. trade embargo. Similarly, when we decide as a nation not to send medicine to other nations as some kind of punishment, the leader still gets antibiotics - but the poor people donxt.
The same is true of individual decisions we make. I fully support a free Tibet, but I recognize that it isn't going to happen because people decide not to buy Chinese goods (even if it was possible). I say that because Chinese leadership would not be effected by such a move, no matter how successful it was.
Here's the kicker: the fact the Chick-fil-a isn't on board with LGBT issues is (in America at least) within their rights. If I decide not to eat there because of that (and I don't eat there), I need to be aware that the person I am hurting the most is the minimum wage worker who, no matter how many showers she takes, smells like chicken. Why? That minimum wage worker who can't look a piece of chicken in the beak will be the first to lose her job. How many of those people will have to get hurt before the CEO feels an impact? I'm afraid a lot of them will become unemployed before the shareholders feel a pinch.
I'm not saying boycotts are always wrong. Boycotting Rush Limbaugh and similar idiots doesn't cause a lot of collateral damage. What I am saying is that we all need to make our own decisions to participate in boycotts or support economic sanctions. Choosing to opt out doesn't mean we don't care about the issues. It means that we have evaluated the broader impact of the suggested action and decided the ends don't justify the means in that particular case.
Many if not most of us are far too eager to attempt to compel others to do things rather than take the time needed to convince them to do the same things. Force is alnost always faster, but it tends not to have a lasting effect and to create enemies in its wake. That more than offsets the gains made.
Friday, June 23, 2017
Thursday, June 15, 2017
Disclaimer: I received a complementary copy of this book through Speakeasy in exchange for an honest, unbiased review.
Monday, June 5, 2017
Disclosure: I received a complimentary copy of this book through Speakeasy in exchange for an unbiased review.
Wednesday, April 26, 2017
Therefore, there will be some restructuring going on here, and I will be back with a post after that is done.