There is no job, no duty, no vows, no responsibility, and no authority that can legitimately ask anyone to deny who they are. Let us be clear, those who engage in self denial and self loathing do nothing but hurt themselves and hurt others who share a similar journey. http://articles.latimes.com/2010/mar/09/local/la-me-ashburn9-2010mar09 http://amplify.com/u/btt7f